tHE PAINFUL PART OF MOTHERHOOD

A poor couple who lived in a
small village in Pakistan. They
had only one son. Gave him
the best education. Son.
graduated as an Engineer in
the nearby city. Eventually,
got married to a rich girl.
Initially, they lived with his
parents in the village. Soon
the wife got tired of village
life and persuaded the
husband to move to the city
leaving the old parents in the
village. As time went the
husband seen an advert in
the newspaper about a
vacancy in Jeddah. He was
successful and lived in Jeddah
for years with his wife.
Regularly he used to send
money to parents. Eventually
with time he stopped and
forgot about his parents ever
existed. Every year he made
Hajj and immediately after
that he used to see someone
telling him in a dream that his
Hajj is not accepted. One day
he related story to a pious
Aalim who advised him to go
back to Pakistan to visit his
parents. The man flew to
Pakistan and reached the
boundary of the village.
Everything had changed. He
could not find his house. He
asked a small boy about the
whereabouts of so and so.
The little boy directed the
man to a house and said: "In
this house lives an old blind
lady who lost her husband a
few months ago. She has a
son who migrated to Saudi
Arabia years back and never
came back again. What an
unfortunate man?" Son
enters the home and finds his
mother on the bed. He tip-
toed as not to wake her up.
He hears the mother
whispering or mumbling
something. He gets closer to
hear her voice. This is what
the mother was saying: "Ya
Allah ! I am now very old and
blind. My husband just died.
There is NO MAHRAM to lower
me in my grave when I die. So
please send my son to fullfill
my last wish. " This is the
ending of a story where the
DUA of a mother is accepted.
A human body can bear only
45 del (unit) of pain. But at
the time of giving birth,a
mother feels upto 57 del
(unit) of pain. This is similar
to 20 BONES GETTING
FRACTURED, all at the same
time!!
LOVE YOUR MOTHER WITH
EVERY RESOURCE IN YOUR LIFE,
EVEN WITH YOUR WIFE.

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ANGELS BUSY SORTING LETTERS

A certain man died and went to heaven. He was granted a chance to go round God's premises and below was his observations as the angel Gabriel took him around.

They entered the first department, a very big hall where so many angels (in their millions) were busy sorting letters. The man was surprised
surprised and asked
in amusement, "what are they doing?"
Gabriel answered, "they are sorting letters of prayer requests according to their categories, for people who are pick, seeking jobs, need deliverance, for divine intervention etc.
They moved into the next department where they say almost the same set up, but this time, the angels were packing letters into boxes and sealing then. Again, the man asked what they were doing and the angel told him that they were sealing God's letter in reply to the request made by people on earth for healing, jobs and so on.

Lastly, they went to the last department where they saw only one man sitting and dozing with nothing much to en. This time, the man asked the angel slowly, "why is this man sitting here?" Gabriel turned and looked at the man, this department is not always as busy as the other ones. The angel here is supposed to be receiving letters of thanksgiving from people on earth who have recieved their replies of blessing, healing and so on... From God, but none of them seem to remember where the blessings came from. That is why this department has only one man to take care of all the duties, and he is never busy, that's why you see him dozing
The man's heart was moved, tears dropped from his eyes and he wished he could go back to Earth to inform his brothers and sisters of what he saw.
Dear reader, what has God done to you? How many answers to your requests have you recieved? How many obstacles have you overcome? In how many wars of life did you find yourself a victor? Did you give thanks to God? Now, today, you are alive, strong and healthy, having a good job and a loving family, have you thanked God for that?
If really you want God to keep on answering your requests, try giving thanks in any way you can any time you recieve God's blessing, also, share this with as many of your friends you want God to bless using the sharing tools, to help them realize they really ought to always show appreciation to God. It's not more than that. Have a change of attitude to God and He'll keep blessing you.

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dON'T FEEL ALONE ANYMORe

"Right now, there are people
all over the world who are
just like you. They’re either
lonely or they're missing
somebody. They are in love
with someone they probably
shouldn’t be in love with.
They have secrets you
wouldn’t believe. They wish
and they dream and they
hope, and they look out the
window whenever they’re
in the car or on a bus or a
train and they watch people
on the streets and wonder
what they’ve been through.
They wonder if there are
people out there like them.
They’re like you, and you
could tell them everything
and they would understand.
And right now, they’re
sitting here reading these
words, and I’m writing this
for you so you don’t feel
alone anymore."

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hOLD MY HANDs

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was a kind of sacred so he asked his daughter
"sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." the little girl replied, "No dad, you hold my hand
"what's the difference?" asked the puzzled father.
"There's a big difference," replied the girl, "If I hold your hand and something happens to me, there are chances that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go"

In any relationship, the
essence of trust is not in its
bind, but in its bond. So hold
the hand of the person
whom you love rather than
expecting them to hold
yours.

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dO NOT LOOK BACk

If Cinderella had gone back to pick her shoe, she wouldn't have become a princess! And remember that in the Bible, Lot's Wife Wouldn't have turn into a pillar of Salt if She didn't look back...

SO friends, Never look back! Remember, Forward ever, backward never.

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tHE BIRTHDAY GIFt

A guy promised his girlfriend that he would buy her a diamond ring as her birthday gift. The girl was very happy. She went to the salon to have some make over to look beautiful on her birthday. She bought make-ups, new clothes and new shoes. Finally, the day she's been waiting for, arrived. She looked elegant, gorgeous...the dream girl for every man. Everybody was focused on her. The party was going to take place in one of those party buses. They were going to pick up her boyfriend from a bus stop. When her boyfriend arrived with a simple doll, the girl got mad at her boyfriend. She thought that he would give her a diamond ring instead of a doll. She threw the doll away. The guy ask the bus driver to stop the bus so that he can pick up the doll, but he was hit by a car. He died in hospital after few hours later. The girl felt very sorry, she cried every minute. At the funeral the girl remembered the good times they had. She hugged the doll tightly, full of love and regret. She was shocked when the doll talked and said "HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY, will you marry me? She then gets the ring in the doll's pocket with the note, hope you like it, I love you! The girl was cried even louder and shouted, " I'm sorry baby, i didn't know, i love u too", but the guy was gone forever.

mORAL OF THE STORy
We should learn to appreciate whatever comes our way because it might just be what we actually need and not what we want

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SHORT MORAL STORIES

Once, all villagers decided to
pray for rain, on the day of
prayer all the People gathered
but only one boy came with an
umbrella...
THAT'S FAITH

When you throw a baby in the
air, she laughs because she
knows you will catch her...
THAT'S TRUST

Every night we go to bed,
without any assurance of being
alive the next Morning but still
we set the alarms in our watch
to wake up...
THAT'S HOPE

We plan big things for
tomorrow in spite of zero
knowledge of the future or
having any certainty of
uncertainties...
THAT'S CONFIDENCE

We see the world suffering. We
know there is every possibility
of the same or similar things
happening to us. But still we get
married...
THAT'S OVER CONFIDENCE !!!

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bRAIN EXERCISe

This is not a story, it's just a little brain exercise for you to do... Okay?


Are you ready?



Do you think you can multitask?
Try this:
1. sit on a chair, lift your right
foot off the floor and make
clockwise circles with it.
2. While still doing that, draw the
number 6 with your right hand.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
You can't help it: your foot will
change direction.
Below is another similar exercise
similar to the first:
1. move your right leg in anti-
clockwise circles
2. While still doing that, draw the
number 8 with your right hand.

What were your results
?

Feel free to post your comments
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lATERAL THINKINg

Many years ago, when a person
who owed money could be
thrown into jail, a merchant in
London had the misfortune to
owe a huge sum to a money-
lender. The money-lender, who
was old, ugly and wicked,
fancied the merchant's beautiful
teenage daughter. He proposed
a bargain. He said he would
cancel the merchant's debt if he
could have the girl instead.
Both the merchant and his
daughter were horrified at the
proposal. So the cunning
money-lender proposed that
they let Providence decide the
matter. He told them that he
would put a black pebble and a
white pebble into an empty
money-bag and then the girl
would have to pick out one of
the pebbles. If she chose the
black pebble, she would become
his wife and her father's debt
would be cancelled. If she chose
the white pebble she would stay
with her father and the debt
would still be cancelled. But if
she refused to pick out a pebble,
her father would be thrown into
jail and she would starve.
Reluctantly, the merchant
agreed. They were standing on a
pebble-strewn path in the
merchant's garden as they
talked and the money-lender
stooped down to pick up the
two pebbles. As he picked up
the pebbles, the girl, sharp-eyed
with fright, noticed that he
picked up two black pebbles and
put them into the money-bag.
He then asked the girl to pick
out the pebble that was to
decide her fate and that of her
father.
Imagine that you are standing
on the path in the merchant's
garden. What would you have
done if you had been the
unfortunate girl? Refuse to take
a pebble? Point out that there
are two black pebbles in the bag
and expose the money-lender as
a cheat ? Take a black pebble
and sacrifice yourself in order to
save your father from prison?
None of the suggestions is very
helpful, for if the girl does not
take a pebble her father goes to
prison, and if she does take a
pebble, then she has to marry
the money-lender.
NOW, THINK LATERALLY!
The girl in the pebble story put
her hand into them oney-bag
and drew out a pebble. Without
looking at it, she fumbled and
let it fall to the path, where it
was immediately lost among all
the others.
"Oh, how clumsy of me," she
said, "but never mind - if you
look into the bag you will be
able to tell which pebble I took
by the color of the one that is
left."
Since the remaining pebble is of
course black, it must be
assumed that she had taken the
white pebble, since the money-
lender dare not admit his
dishonesty. In this way, using
lateral thinking, the girl changes
what seems an impossible
situation into an extremely
advantageous one!

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uSEFUL TIPS AND ADVICE FOR YOUR WARD AND CHILDREn

Carefully read through each of the following...

-Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps
no
matter the situation including uncles.

-Avoid getting dressed in front of your child once
he/
she is 2years old. Lean to excuse yourself.

-If you have to hire a house-help please kindly take
them for HIV screening to determine their HIV
status,
properly interview them and make up your mind
to
treat them well.

-Never allow any adult refer to your new born as
'my
wife' or 'my husband'

-Never tempt your husband with your younger
sister. (Else he'd say its hers and the devil's
fault)

-Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make sure you
take
care of your husband by yourself lest you lead
him into
temptation.

-Whenever your child goes out to play with
friends
make sure you look for a way to find out what
kind of
play they played together because young people
now
sexually abuse themselves.

-Never force your child to visit any adult he or she
is
not comfortable with and also be observant if your
child
becomes too fond of a particular adult.

-Once a very lively child suddenly becomes
withdrawn
you might need to patiently ask a lot of questions
from
your child.

-If you don't teach your children about sex, the
society
will teach them the wrong values.

-It is always advisable you go through any new
material
like cartoons you just bought for them before they
start
seeing it themselves.

-Teach your 3year olds how to wash their private
parts
properly and warn them never to allow anyone
touch
those areas and that includes you.

(remember, charity begins at home and with you)

-Blacklist some materials you think could threaten
the
sanity of your child (that includes music, movies
and
musicians) and let them understand the value of
standing out of the crowd.

-Once your child complains about a particular
person,
don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and
show
them you can defend them always!

Now If after reading through this and you think its useful enough.
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mORAL BITs

"When I woke up this morning lying on my bed, I asked myself, What are some of the secrets of success in life?
I found answers right there, in my room...

The fan said...be cool.

The ceiling said...aim high.

The window said...see the world.

The clock said....every second counts.

The mirror said.....reflect before you act.

The calender said... Be up to date....

The door said... Push hard for your goals"

Hmmm! May the lord be our guide today. Happy Easter.

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aLWAYS DIRTy

Mr. and Mrs. George a newly
wedded young couple moves
into a new
neighborhood.
The next morning,
while they are eating breakfast,
the
young woman sees her neighbor
hang
her washed clothes outside,
perhaps
she needs better laundry soap she
says.
Her husband looked on, but
remained silent..
That laundry is not very clean, she
continued, she doesn't
know how to wash correctly.

Every time
her neighbor would hang her
clothes
to dry, the young woman would
make
the same comments..
.
About one
month later, the young lady was
surprised to see a nice clean wash
on
the line and said to her husband:
Look! She has learned how to
wash
correctly. I wonder who taught
her
this.
The husband said: I got up early
this morning
and cleaned our
windows!

mORAL OF THE STORy
So it is with life: What we see
when
watching others, depends on the
purity of the window through
which we
look.
Before we give any criticism, it
might be a good idea to check
our
state of mind and ask ourselves if
we
are ready to see the good rather
than to be looking for something
else in the
person we are about to judge.

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A RESEARCH AT AN ENGLISH UNIVERSITY

Aoccdrnig to a rscheaerch at an Elingsh Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in what oredr the lettres in a wrod are, the olny improtant thing is that the frist and last letter is at the rghit plaec. The rset can be a total mses and you can sitll raed it wihtout much porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae we do not raed ervey lteter by it slef but the wrod as a wlohe. The same with love. When you truly love someone you won't mind his or her mistakes, but you understand him/her and move on..

Don't forget, you were able to read this just because you overlooked the mistakes, if truely you love someone, you won't mind every of their mistakes, you'll just overlook them.
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tHE FATHER'S EYEs

This teenager lived alone with his father, and the
two of them had a very special relationship.
Even though the son was always on the bench,
his father was always in the stands cheering. He
never missed a game.This young man was still
the smallest of the class when he entered high
school. But his father continued to encourage
him but also made it very clear that he did not
have to play football if he didn't want to.
But the young man loved football and decided
to hang in there. He was determined to try his
best at every practice, and perhaps he'd get to
play when he became a senior. All through high
school he never missed a practice nor a game,
but remained a bench warmer all four years.
His faithful father was always in the stands,
always with words of encouragement for him.
When the young man went to college, he
decided to try out for the football team as a
"walk-on." Everyone was sure he could never
make the cut, but he did. The coach admitted
that he kept him on the roste because he
always puts his heart and soul into every
practice, and at the same time, provided the
other members with the spirit and hustle they
badly needed.The news that he had survived
the cut thrilled him so much that he rushed to
the nearest phone and called his father. His
father shared his excitement and was sent
season tickets for all the college games.
This persistent young athlete never missed
practice during his four years at college, but he
never got to play in the game.It was the end of
his senior football season, and as he trotted
onto the practice field shortly before the big play
off game, the coach met him with a telegram.
The young man read the telegram and he
became deathly silent. Swallowing hard, he
mumbled to the coach, "My father died this
morning. Is it all right if I miss practice today?"
The coach put his arm gently around his
shoulder and said, "Take the rest of the week
off, son. And don't even plan to come back to
the game on Saturday.
Saturday arrived, and the game was not going
well. In the third quarter, when the team was
ten points behind, a silent young man quietly
slipped into the empty locker room and put on
his football gear. As he ran onto the sidelines,
the coach and his players were astounded to
see their faithful teammate back so
soon."Coach, please let me play. I've just got to
play today," said the young man. The coach
pretended not to hear him. There was no way
he wanted his worst player in this close playoff
game. But the young man persisted, and finally
feeling sorry for the kid, the coach gave in. "All
right," he said."You can go in."
Before long, the coach, the players and
everyone in the stands could not believe their
eyes. This little unknown, who had never
played before was doing everything right. The
opposing team could not stop him. He ran, he
passed, blocked and tackled like a star. His team
began to triumph. The score was soon tied. In
the closing seconds of the game, this kid
intercepted a pass and ran all the way for the
winning touchdown.
The fans broke loose. His teammates hoisted
him onto their shoulders. Such cheering you've
never heard! Finally, after the stands had
emptied and the team had showered and left
the locker room, the coach noticed that the
young man was sitting quietly in the corner all
alone. The coach came to him and said, "Kid, I
can't believe it. You were fantastic! Tell me what
got into you? How did you do it?"
He looked at the coach, with tears in his eyes,
and said, "Well, you knew my dad died, but did
you know that my dad was blind?" The young
man swallowed hard and forced a smile, "Dad
came to all my games, but today was the first
time he could see me play, and I wanted to
show him I could do it!"

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